I made an interesting realization today while working with another gal on a project. She is very friendly gal, but she seems to like most of the others we come in contact with than me. I realized that others just are happier.
Well, yeah.
I know I'm not that happy while at work.
I am generally just so outrageously stressed then you through in the social aspect with spikes my anxiety even higher.
BUT we really do feel more at ease when we are around happy people. There was a really happy, sweet and just authentic daughter of a resident there who has the same temperament. I felt stressed all day and with everyone else I talked with, but with this daughter, I didn't. I felt at ease, and what's more, I felt happy.
Why? Why with her? She wasn't fakely happy like so many people that we consider "very happy."
Maybe if I knew who myself was around others, and was authentic, and stayed positive, maybe others would like being around me too.
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